Tell Me What You Want
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The Science of Sexual Desire
Justin J. Lehmiller, a leading expert on human sexuality and author of the popular blog Sex and Psychology, has made it his career's ambition to answer these questions.
Based on his monumental two-year study of sexual fantasies involving more than 4,000 people from all walks of life, Tell Me What You Want offers an unprecedented look into our fantasy worlds and what they reveal about us. It will help you to understand your own sexual desires and how to attain them within your relationships, but also to appreciate why your partner may have sexual proclivities that are so different from your own.
Appreciating the incredible diversity of human sexual desire and why this diversity exists in the first place can help you to overcome distress, anxiety, and shame about your own sexual fantasies; ultimately enhancing your sex life. Breaking down barriers to discussing sexual fantasies and allowing them to become a part of your sexual reality is the pathway to maintaining more satisfying relationships.
Hardcover, 261 pages
Language: English
Author: Justin J. Lehmiller, PhD
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Please read our return/exchange policy here: Anya Lust returns.
Holiday Returns:
Extended returns from November 15th, 2024 to January 5th, 2025. Store credit will be given after our usual 14-day return window - no refunds after 14 days. Store credit never expires and can be used at any time.
US:
We hope that you love and treasure every purchase from Anya Lust. But, if you wish to return an item for any reason, please do so within 14 days of the delivery date. All returned items must be in their original, unworn condition with tags attached.
These items are final sale and cannot be returned: Kafemme items, hosiery, custom orders (including latex), pearl panties/bodysuits, candles, intimate wellness items, sensual accessories, mystery box, gift cards, classes/workshops, digital downloads, and items in the outlet collection. We will not accept anything that has been worn, damaged, detached tags, or returned after 14 days. If items are not returned under these conditions, they will be promptly sent back to the purchaser’s address. Please try on bottoms over your own panties.
If you’d like to exchange for another item, simply return the original for a refund and place a new order. Visit our returns center here: https://anyalust.com/a/return
Canada & International:
Only exchanges (for a different size) or returns for store credit are accepted within 21 days of the delivery date. International orders cannot be returned for a refund. All exchanged items must be in their original, unworn condition with tags attached.
These items are final sale and cannot be exchanged: Kafemme items, hosiery, custom orders (including latex), pearl panties/bodysuits, candles, intimate wellness items, sensual accessories, mystery box, gift cards, classes/workshops, digital downloads, and items in the outlet collection. We will not accept anything that has been worn, damaged, detached tags, or returned after 21 days. If items are not returned under these conditions, they will be promptly sent back to the purchaser’s address. Please try on bottoms over your own panties. Package must be postmarked within the 21-day period. We currently do not offer free return shipping for international orders. To exchange for a different size or return your items for store credit, visit our returns center here: https://anyalust.com/a/return
